Life advise

I need some serious life coaching.
I'm 19 and living with my bf, he's studying and I'm looking for work.
But I can't find any, and I'm just really depressed because I haven't found any.
And I unhappy with the way my life is, the way I look.

What's your solution when your stuck in a moody pitch?

I was thinking I'd color my hair pink..but I have no money :C

I think you're looking for happiness from a wrong place, girl.
find your inner peace.

It may sound odd but when I'm in a pissy mood and in rough times, I read A LOT. It really eases up the stress for me when I'm able to forget about those things for a while when I'm engulfed in a book.

Do something that you really, really enjoy to try and make up for things that aren't going so well in your life.

i agree with them.

me, too.... i read books when im sad..... reading books that make u happy and give u a peace of mind is a good idea

Thanks! I just remembered I have this awesome book I've totally forgot about!

first i would not color your hair until you find a job ((people look down on different colored hair)) then after a set time ((five weeks to three months)) and see if their is a dress code conduct rule and see if it says about hair colors ((because i know some places you cant have nail polish or some places you cant have hair down to your shoulders)) its hard but if you want a job its really important to listen to me because its hard to find a job but even more important when you dont look like the what is on billboards ((not saying skinny im saying if you have tattoos on your face or if you have piercings everywhere its harder unless you want to work at a tattoo parlor)) Wow i sound mean but i really am trying to warn you because i went into a interview one time with a little bit of a pink streak in from a party and i got yelled at and wasnt even considered.

I was thinking the same.Jay is right. If you want to dye your hair then do so but id pick a natural hair colour.

Wow, thanks, that was an eye opener! I never even though my haircolor could effect my job searching!
its probably better I wait and talk to my future boss about it!
Thankfully I live in liberal sweden so hopefully I'll be okay!
again thanks for the advise I really really appreciated it!
maybe my pink days will come, but I guess now would be a bad timing :3

Yeah. it just depends on the type of job really. least over here.

jayson526 wrote:because i went into a interview one time with a little bit of a pink streak in from a party and i got yelled at and wasnt even considered.

They yelled at you?! Bet you're glad you didn't get that job. :/

Good luck on your job search, Maiika! I find listening to a lot of music helps when I'm depressed. I hope you find something soon.

catloafwithpotato wrote:

jayson526 wrote:because i went into a interview one time with a little bit of a pink streak in from a party and i got yelled at and wasnt even considered.

They yelled at you?! Bet you're glad you didn't get that job. :/

Good luck on your job search, Maiika! I find listening to a lot of music helps when I'm depressed. I hope you find something soon.

yeah something about "you come here and look like you dont even try to look decent we have a image to uphold" which in hindsight i laugh now because two weeks later they where closed down because of health regulations XD mice dont make people eat somewhere XD saw the guy later working at wallmart as a cashier which ticked me off because im still looking for a job and he found one easy enough -_- i did ask him how his image was looking without me XD and this was when i had full fire truck red hair and a hello kitty t shirt on XD

jayson526 wrote:

catloafwithpotato wrote:

jayson526 wrote:because i went into a interview one time with a little bit of a pink streak in from a party and i got yelled at and wasnt even considered.

They yelled at you?! Bet you're glad you didn't get that job. :/

Good luck on your job search, Maiika! I find listening to a lot of music helps when I'm depressed. I hope you find something soon.

yeah something about "you come here and look like you dont even try to look decent we have a image to uphold" which in hindsight i laugh now because two weeks later they where closed down because of health regulations XD mice dont make people eat somewhere XD saw the guy later working at wallmart as a cashier which ticked me off because im still looking for a job and he found one easy enough -_- i did ask him how his image was looking without me XD and this was when i had full fire truck red hair and a hello kitty t shirt on XD

haha "image to uphold" and they have mice [droppings, i assume?] around. well, it all worked out for you then, didn't it

good luck.