Are you a jealous person?

oh.... well.... I am jealous in relationship but not too much. I think it's normal if you care about someone... I don't know...

Other than that I'm not a jealous person...

true. same

agreeing with phoenix, a little jealousy in a relationship is heathly.

No I am not jealous, I am happy with what I got.

I don't get jealous of other people for what they have, it is pointless. It doesn't get you anywhere at the best of times, and at the worst of times, like beautiful_inside09 said, it can get you into a lot of trouble.

I do get jealous relationship-wise or when I have a crush on someone, but I think everyone does. It's only normal.

I am kinda jealous, sometimes I just can't help it :/
i'm kinda jealous of the attention some people get, especially if they don't deserve it :/
i hate when i can do something better than someone because i'm not a professional but that person literally SUCKS but people still like that person's work more than mine and it's so annoying :/
like there's one girl that i'm always jealous of https://www.youtube.com/user/milicastaletovic
you might think she's not that bad, but that's because she deleted the videos where her voice was HORRIBLE. all my friends said that she's HORRIBLE.
the only reason why others say that she is "amazing" because she has a lot of friends and she's really friendly :/

jealouse is bad
I'm not jealous

Gretta you are amazing person. You don't think about this person, please

Well, yeah I can be a jealous person when it comes to my crush/ or my boyfriend. Like if I see my crush with a pretty girl then I get jealous.. or if he's checking out some other girl or something - but I don't act upon my jealousy lol

Otherwise no, I TRY HARD not to get jealous of pretty girls with good grades and what seems like a good life. I try to be happy for them instead.. so I'm not a jealous person in that sense.

Yes! I am...

but you know, being A LITTLE BIT jealous is actually good, because when you see someone better than you, you want to become even more better and you will work hard and that way, someday, maybe, we will all be better

Gretta wrote:but you know, being A LITTLE BIT jealous is actually good, because when you see someone better than you, you want to become even more better and you will work hard and that way, someday, maybe, we will all be better

yes, it can motivate sometimes I guess

Gretta wrote:I am kinda jealous, sometimes I just can't help it :/
i'm kinda jealous of the attention some people get, especially if they don't deserve it :/
i hate when i can do something better than someone because i'm not a professional but that person literally SUCKS but people still like that person's work more than mine and it's so annoying :/
like there's one girl that i'm always jealous of https://www.youtube.com/user/milicastaletovic
you might think she's not that bad, but that's because she deleted the videos where her voice was HORRIBLE. all my friends said that she's HORRIBLE.
the only reason why others say that she is "amazing" because she has a lot of friends and she's really friendly :/

I can understand that girl!...I guess some stuff could make me feel the same.

Gretta wrote:but you know, being A LITTLE BIT jealous is actually good, because when you see someone better than you, you want to become even more better and you will work hard and that way, someday, maybe, we will all be better

that's a postive way to look at it.

Gretta wrote:I am kinda jealous, sometimes I just can't help it :/
i'm kinda jealous of the attention some people get, especially if they don't deserve it :/
i hate when i can do something better than someone because i'm not a professional but that person literally SUCKS but people still like that person's work more than mine and it's so annoying :/
like there's one girl that i'm always jealous of https://www.youtube.com/user/milicastaletovic
you might think she's not that bad, but that's because she deleted the videos where her voice was HORRIBLE. all my friends said that she's HORRIBLE.
the only reason why others say that she is "amazing" because she has a lot of friends and she's really friendly :/

You don't need to be jealous of her. It sucks when people have things they don't deserve, I know that. But you're a genuinely lovely person, and all that matters is that you do your best in life and feel happy with yourself. Besides, you have lots of friends too, here on ToL Nobody's better or worse than anyone else, but unfortunately some people's mentalities work the opposite way. Some people go the whole hog and deliberately try to make others jealous. But you can prove that you're better than all that, by rising above it

Maybe in the future, we Moon Children can teach others to be happier by accepting that all humans are equals. We all spend a designated amount of time on this planet, then we die. All that matters is being the best you can be in that time, not being better than everyone else. What we happen to have achieved in life will be forgotten eventually. Let's all just live for ourselves

I think i was jelouse of my friends friendship with her friend..I once felt like she liked her other friend more...I did't mean to feel that way.....But i've larned i had no reason to be bejelouse.

I sort of get jealous, I'll admit ^.^; But I never act on it. When I get jealous of someone, sometimes I try to make friends with that person and then it gets rid of those feelings. And best of all you get a new friend Friends are waaaay better than enemies.

TheLastSongbird wrote:
All that matters is being the best you can be in that time, not being better than everyone else.

Well said! That's hard to remember sometimes, but it's so true.

That is like so true

Gretta wrote:I am kinda jealous, sometimes I just can't help it :/
i'm kinda jealous of the attention some people get, especially if they don't deserve it :/
i hate when i can do something better than someone because i'm not a professional but that person literally SUCKS but people still like that person's work more than mine and it's so annoying :/
like there's one girl that i'm always jealous of https://www.youtube.com/user/milicastaletovic
you might think she's not that bad, but that's because she deleted the videos where her voice was HORRIBLE. all my friends said that she's HORRIBLE.
the only reason why others say that she is "amazing" because she has a lot of friends and she's really friendly :/

I guess that's understandable....Most of us feel like that sometimes.

Lilee wrote:I sort of get jealous, I'll admit ^.^; But I never act on it. When I get jealous of someone, sometimes I try to make friends with that person and then it gets rid of those feelings. And best of all you get a new friend Friends are waaaay better than enemies.

that's good idea to NEVER EVER act on it..That's when a person get's into trouble.

I think i can be..I don't act on it tho..It's normal to be.everyone is sometimes.

butterflycry2010 wrote:I think i can be..I don't act on it tho..It's normal to be.everyone is sometimes.

well yes but if you don't act on it, no harm done

Little Phoenix wrote:

butterflycry2010 wrote:I think i can be..I don't act on it tho..It's normal to be.everyone is sometimes.

well yes but if you don't act on it, no harm done

yeah, it's alway's best not to act on it.

I think there are better words to describe "healthy jealousy," like respect and admiration. But what I've been feeling a lot recently is totally the opposite of jealousy. Ya know, when you're sad that you can't actually give them what you're feeling, but at the same time you're so glad you aren't somebody else having to deal with their own set of unique issues? You can't give someone what they refuse to accept, and you can't have what's not yours to take.

PROUDLIKECOW wrote:I think there are better words to describe "healthy jealousy," like respect and admiration. But what I've been feeling a lot recently is totally the opposite of jealousy. Ya know, when you're sad that you can't actually give them what you're feeling, but at the same time you're so glad you aren't somebody else having to deal with their own set of unique issues? You can't give someone what they refuse to accept, and you can't have what's not yours to take.

Oh yes! I see what you are saying..I can say i feel like that sometimes!!

"healthy jealousy" yes, sometimes I'm "healthy jealousy"

jealousy is a waste of a emotion.

I'm not usually a jealous person.

Lisadeluxee wrote:I'm not usually a jealous person.

that's very good!!!

Lisadeluxee wrote:I'm not usually a jealous person.

wise women.