Can you say "No"?
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Can you say "No"?
Do you have trouble saying no to people? You know how people ask you to do something and in ur heart you wanna say no,but u say yes ,cuz u don't wanna hurt the person's feelings? You know you get worried they be like mad with you?
Yes,I need to learn the world NOOOOOOOO!
Yes,I need to learn the world NOOOOOOOO!
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Re: Can you say "No"?
i kinda depends on the situation and the person for me. most of the time i think i can say no. other times i say yes.
pixiedust19- Posts : 794
Join date : 2010-06-11
Re: Can you say "No"?
Pretty much what pixiedust19 said. It really depends
ladyxcabaret- Posts : 664
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pixiedust19 wrote:i kinda depends on the situation and the person for me. most of the time i think i can say no. other times i say yes.
exactly the same for mee.
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The hardest thing in the world for me is say no! Help! xD
Its like... i think "No, no and NO" but I say "Yes, its ok" even when i just cant say yes in any circunstance! It's a big problem for me.
Its like... i think "No, no and NO" but I say "Yes, its ok" even when i just cant say yes in any circunstance! It's a big problem for me.
Re: Can you say "No"?
No was my first word.
I have trouble saying it now, but I'm learning to say it.
Just have faith and courage in yourself.
I have trouble saying it now, but I'm learning to say it.
Just have faith and courage in yourself.
Re: Can you say "No"?
I just can't say it It's a serious issue for me XD People take advantage of me :S But I'm learning to say no. It's just hard. I feel like people won't like me if I say no! :S
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I think that it is very important to always say no when you feel like this because if you don't say it people might not understand what you think or what you really want to do and then people just don't understand you correctly.
Siim- Posts : 101
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Siim wrote:I think that it is very important to always say no when you feel like this because if you don't say it people might not understand what you think or what you really want to do and then people just don't understand you correctly.
I think that's a very smart way to look at it. I must remember all these things so that the next time I want to say no I will say it. But by then I have usually forgotten it
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alelokk wrote:The hardest thing in the world for me is say no! Help! xD
Its like... i think "No, no and NO" but I say "Yes, its ok" even when i just cant say yes in any circunstance! It's a big problem for me.
that's what happends to me.
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It depends, I can say "no" sometimes, but usually I can't
I'm just afraid to hurt other's feelings :/
I'm just afraid to hurt other's feelings :/
Gretta- Posts : 556
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Siim wrote:I think that it is very important to always say no when you feel like this because if you don't say it people might not understand what you think or what you really want to do and then people just don't understand you correctly.
I agree with you!!
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Re: Can you say "No"?
I don't know how to say no, and that gets me in trouble most of the times.
electric_rhino- Posts : 281
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I use to have a hard time saying no, but not much anymore.
Lilee- Posts : 1445
Join date : 2010-06-06
Location : USA
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It depends on the situation, person, etc., but sometimes I do have trouble saying no. :/
Lisadeluxee- Posts : 159
Join date : 2010-07-07
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I found it very difficult to say no when I was younger. I think it was mainly because I was afraid of people being angry with me if I disagreed with them. Either that, or because I was being pushed into something by bullies and I couldn't pluck up the courage to tell them to back off =/ But I find it a lot easier now, because I've got rid of all the people who I didn't feel comfortable just being myself with
TheLastSongbird- Posts : 1457
Join date : 2010-06-13
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TheLastSongbird wrote:I found it very difficult to say no when I was younger. I think it was mainly because I was afraid of people being angry with me if I disagreed with them. Either that, or because I was being pushed into something by bullies and I couldn't pluck up the courage to tell them to back off =/ But I find it a lot easier now, because I've got rid of all the people who I didn't feel comfortable just being myself with
I can understand that.....I can say i know how that feels.
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yes, have a hard time
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