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Post by catloafwithpotato on Sun Apr 17, 2011 8:02 pm

This is just bugging me and maybe it will help if I write something to make myself stop thinking about it. This probably isn't going to make much sense to anyone else unless I change my mind and put more detail in..
It's not my own story, but it's also not something where anyone is in danger or anything like that. It's just bothering me. I guess it's like..
OK, this friend of mine, she's one of my best friends and she's not a bad or mean person but there is some stuff lately involving a guy and I just really don't like any of it. And it makes me question her morals and whether she's changed since high school. [also something involving a guy that hurt a friend a lot; bet you can guess some of what this is about from that.]. She just.. she doesn't see herself for what she is, and she has issues with being on her own. I have tried to discuss this to try to pinpoint why that is, but it has been to no avail.
And there is this guy.. who has done some things I really don't like.. And she doesn't really see much wrong with what he's done. She doesn't think he's bad because none of it has been directed at her. But how someone treats others does reflect on them. And in my opinion, this guy is kind of a narcissist and I don't think he cares about anyone, even though he claims otherwise. He's hurt one person [emotionally] badly recently, and he had tried to hurt another person [emotionally --all the hurt I'm mentioning here is emotional pain]. The person he tried to hurt was in retaliation for them hurting him. The fact that my friend would want to be with a person that does shit like that is just.. I can't wrap my brain around that. There's more to this but I don't think I should go into that. Just. That part alone is enough for me to dislike this situation.

I'm just frustrated and kind of sad now and needed to vent so, there we go. No

This song is good:

I keep listening to it, so that will be the soundtrack to this blog entry.

The end.
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Post by Natt on Mon Apr 18, 2011 3:42 am

Honey, when you write what you feel etc it really help because when you do it your thought and emotions are free.
And maybe you try talking with your friend but very softy, that don't hurt her.

Song is nice
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Post by Krissy on Mon Apr 18, 2011 6:04 am

I'm really sorry to here about your friend.This shows that your a sweet & caring friend. Hope things will work out and get better. I really wish i knew some advice to give you or to help you. sometimes people do change afther high school.(or new friends/guy's) can sure change people and what they do. Don't think much you can do now. Just try telling her how you feel.( in a nice way of course)Tell her your here for her if she needs you. This may all work out own its own.

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Post by catloafwithpotato on Mon Apr 18, 2011 11:37 am

Thanks guys. I love you I love you

You're right, it does help to write stuff on here.
I wrote her an email, because she lives a couple hours away from me now (which also sucks) and I hope she sees what I'm saying.. She does have a tendency to take things as attacks, though, so ..we'll see.
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Post by Natt on Mon Apr 18, 2011 11:54 am

catloaf I hope that will be better and good with your friend. I send to you and her so much love and light <3
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Post by Krissy on Mon Apr 18, 2011 11:54 am

That was a good idea

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Post by catloafwithpotato on Mon Apr 18, 2011 4:38 pm

Thank you, Natt <3

I hope so, butterflycry. : )
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Post by Krissy on Tue Apr 19, 2011 2:46 pm

no problem,-goodluck

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Post by Lovemuffin on Thu Apr 21, 2011 3:06 am

Aw:(
thats kind of ironic because the way the situtaion is sounding... i can TOTALLY relate. I get what you're talking about for the most part lol

but :/
yeah, im sorry to hear that.
and i also agree with KerliPoland on this Smile
BEST OF LUCK X3
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Post by Tara on Fri Apr 22, 2011 5:18 pm

Sometimes when people fall in love (or what they think is love) all they see about that person is the good in them. Usually they are blind to it, or just chose to ignore the bad. I think maybe it's because they just don't want to believe that the person they fell in love probably doesn't really exist. They don't want to lose that person, even if they aren't who they think they are. Change is hard. Most people will realize it in time. Eventually the person usually shows their true form to them. Give your friend some time and just be there for her all you can Smile
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Post by catloafwithpotato on Sun Apr 24, 2011 3:24 pm

Thanks guys. Your words mean a lot to me. I love you
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Post by Lovemuffin on Tue Apr 26, 2011 1:53 pm

Smile))) I'll be also checking for more blog posts here XD

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Post by Tara on Tue Apr 26, 2011 2:15 pm

N/p. It helps to have someone listen.
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Post by mother_snyder on Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:03 pm

Somtimes righting them helps becouse it gets the things. Out in front of you so youcan see them better ans they are manifested in the universe so you can get the guidance you Need. And in all you can do is be there for her because we all have to live our own life mistakes and all. I send you both light and loveliest
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Post by catloafwithpotato on Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:33 pm

^Thank you. Smile
You guys are awesome.
Right now I'm just trying to do some shopping for a trip I'm taking in a couple weeks, so maybe I'll write something else soonish. Smile
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Post by mother_snyder on Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:49 pm

Have fun and get somthing supercute
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Post by mother_snyder on Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:51 pm

Have fun and get somthing supercute
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Post by Krissy on Thu Apr 28, 2011 2:28 pm

trip sounds nice

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Post by Tara on Mon May 02, 2011 3:27 pm

I'm going on a trip soon too. Have fun and be safe!!!
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Post by catloafwithpotato on Mon May 02, 2011 4:06 pm

Thanks guys! I'm going to Montreal. I've only been there once before, about ten years ago & I think it's so pretty. Very Happy

Where are you going, MissTJ?
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Post by Tara on Mon May 02, 2011 4:49 pm

Germany and while I'm there France and England as well.
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Post by Lovemuffin on Fri May 06, 2011 1:53 pm

HAVE GREAT TRIP!!!Smile
To both you and MissTJ XD

BE safe Smile and have loads of fun ^_^
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Post by Tara on Sat May 07, 2011 4:01 pm

Ty:)
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